May 31 2008
Medical Treatment (Physician Assisted Dying) Bill 2008
Currently there is a Bill before the Victorian Parliament to allow for the legality of physician assisted dying (PAD) for terminally ill and terminally chronically ill people who wish, because there is no chance to recover from their intolerable suffering, to VOLUNTARILY hastened their death. The writer of the email being unable to attend the information forum on the Bill as presented kindly sent me a copy of the email sent to the Greens politician, Western Metropolitan Legislative Council, Colleen Hartland who is co hosting the Bill with Bass Member. Ken Smith – Liberal.
Politicians such as Ken Smith and Colleen Hartland have already made their views public on the implementation of a compassionate Bill to help those who hold views similar to ourselves, but what does need to happen is that you share your personal story, preferable in person, to your Local Member. Let them see first hand the impact of what this Bill means to you in terms of peace of mine, secure in the knowledge that there is an alternative to intolerable pain at the end of life. The law will always allow people their own choice whether to participate in the process and strict guidelines will be in place to protect those who don’t wish to use the Bill’s options.
Unable to Attend
Body won’t let me
But I wish to be heard
To Colleen Hartland MLC.
Thank you for hosting this forum. I want to speak on behalf of the hundreds of tired, and sick elderly unable to have a voice in this discussion, either by their own infirmities or lack of understanding that, they could have an opinion about how they will die.
When I first began my journey aged 50 around these issues after my mother died, I had MY understanding of her frustration and despair, and now admit I did not listen or hear what she said. Instead I constantly altered her reality by asking her to look to a more comfortable and loving reality that was not there. She knew she was in the closing stage of living, and had always believed in Voluntary Euthanasia as she had in fact worked in the Cheltenham Old Age Home… now called Kingston.
Thank goodness conditions have very much improved, but the facts of old age still remain, there is an end, and choices about how that end can come about is now the issue.
Do you really listen to the very old people in nursing homes etc. You can not feel their frustration ( often called depression) with loss of dexterity, loss of being able to control their own daily bodily functions, daily dealing with a body that is now a stranger to their eyes and other senses. Some are bewildered that the medical profession are not fixing their illness problems, others are very aware that all that has been done has been done and they are just waiting. So are their families. Everyone has to face their own challenge with this stage of either their own or their parents sunset stage.
How often do I now stand and say “ I am sorry Mum I did not understand “
So I want to be a voice* for the people who now, and for those who went before me, also believing in having a choice at that time. (*Thank goodness for my Computer)
This is why it is so important to have some legal paperwork in place while it is possible.
This bill is a very positive step in that direction and I thank you, younger energetic, understanding people who are now carrying the torch.
But I still have the dream that it will happen in my living time here.
Sincerely
Unable to Attend
Body won’t let me
But I wish to be heard
I forgot to add.
Most families do the very best they can to assist their parents. I did for 13 years…. but after a long time it becomes very wearing on the carer and their own family. Even the grandchildren often do not want to attend the obligatory visits in the nursing home etc.
The structures in place now are beginning to wear thin because of the increasing numbers needing care etc….
Please do not put the benchmark for all, like the wonderful people who are still active at the latter stage of the lives…we are not all Elizabeth Murcoch’s.
In fact I feel that I have failed successfully to meet the outward appearance of aging gracefully, but the marbles are still very well polished, and I continue to study.
But again, I have to have care and assistance, and I am aware that, that too must end, as my family’s growing commitments with their children can not always cope with my needs, as much as they want to. I fortunately do understand this issue not like many I hear confused by the changing patterns of living today that their children are facing.
It is about choice and the Right to Life people have in fact got that…… what are they yelling about….
once again Regards