Oct 01 2005

Never, say Never

Tag: Diarymary @ 6:57 am

I’ve posted an item under Related Readings which deals with “words” and their suitability for general consumption. 

“Catherine” continues to progress after her successful lung removal and is currently striding around the block for 40 minute walks, twice a day!    She has decided to undergo chemotherapy.

Another lesson, from observing Catherine,  for me is “never, say never”.   Until you’ve walked in their shoes, no one really knows what decisions they’ll make in their lives.  With the best intentions in the world we believe our own “self talk” only to a degree.  When confronted with major life altering decisions, it is a real reality check.


Sep 30 2005

When Life Becomes Worse Than Death

Tag: Diarymary @ 7:00 am

2005-09-29 From: Deutsche Wele, GE
When Life Becomes Worse Than Death
http://www.dw-world.de/dw/article/0,1564,1724358,00.html

Assisted suicide requires a caring and helping hand

In a move which has caused considerable consternation among politicians and the church, the Swiss organization for assisted suicide, Dignitas, has founded a subsidiary in Germany.

The numbers, though not particularly high, are noteworthy.

Since Ludwig A Minelli founded Dignitas in 1998, the Swiss assisted-suicide organization has helped 453 people to their deaths. More than half of those, according to the organization, come from Germany. The fact was reason enough for Minelli to start up an office in Hanover through which he hopes to influence Germany’s assisted-suicide debate.

“It’s about having a group here, that involves itself in the assisted-suicide debate,” said Minelli upon announcing the opening of the office last week. “We want to give it a push.”

At the moment, German law doesn’t punish doctors who help their patients die. But courts have investigated neglectful care that has led to the deaths of critically ill patients. In Switzerland, organizations like Dignitas, which means “dignity” in Latin, can not only counsel people who want to end their lives, but are able to give them the deadly medicinal cocktail – provided by a doctor – to carry out their wish. The cost? More than 3,100 Swiss francs ($2,400).

Fierce opposition

Germany hasn’t exactly rolled out the welcome mat. On Wednesday, the mass daily Bild ran a photo of the organization’s new Hanover offices under the headline “Here is where they sell Death”.

The Justice Minister of Lower Saxony, Elisabeth Hiester-Neumann, responded to the news this week by announcing that she is looking into ways of outlawing assisted suicide, a practice which is generally tolerated by law, although not openly discussed. “The organized promotion of suicide cannot be tolerated,” Hiester-Neumann said. The ministry also said they planned to have the building observed by police.

The Bishop of Hanover, Margot Kässmann, shared the justice ministry’s concerns, calling Dignitas’ move “problematic”, and adding that there should be no such thing as a “quick and effective death”, and that death should be further integrated into society.

Germany’s protestant and catholic churches are, alongside conservative politicians, the two fiercest opponents of a system that allows people to choose death over life, said Susanne Dehmel, of the German Society for Dying in Dignity (DGHS).

“They say God created life and only he can take it, but the wider population doesn’t go along with that,” she said. “They are more of the opinion that they should treat life as a gift, which also means they should be able to put an end to it if they want to.”

Worst case scenario

Thomas Schindler, Managing Director of the German Association of Palliative Medicine offers a middle way.

“Our experience tells us that good care makes the process of dying much more bearable,” he said. “Premature death is irreversible, so we don’t support that, but neither do we extend suffering, and palliative medicine often provides adequate alleviation.”

But, as Dignitas records show, that’s just not enough for some people. The DGHS says Germany should embrace all the options and introduce an all-encompassing law which would clearly provide for all eventualities, and make assisted suicide a possible last resort for those who have tried or rejected the wide range of other options.

“People should not have to jump under a train or leap from the seventh floor in order to take their lives,” she said. “Although palliative medicine can be a huge help for many people, and often removes the will to die, there are still those patients for whom it doesn’t work, and these people have to be given the chance to die legally.”


Sep 28 2005

Tag: Diarymary @ 1:45 pm

Item Three

Catching up on some reading matter I came across this little gem in an article mainly addressing the issue of an American relief doctor who assisted dying people to die easier and more quickly during the recent New Orleans disaster, dispensing morphine to them.

And I quote!

“Queensland doctor and navy reservist Paul Lukin, who was in the first Australian medical team to fly into Banda Aceh after the Asian tsunami, said standard medical and navy policy when confronted with overwhelming disasters was to first treat seriously ill patients who could be saved with available resources.
“We would not give an extra or double dose of morphine,” he said.”

What Mr Lukin is saying in effect “don’t waste valuable resources relieving severe pain more quickly”.   Perhaps he could have ensured a thick pillow was available to suffocate them instead!.  Or hit them over the head with a brick!.  Or stab them to death!   

No valuable resources for hopeless cases,  used up then!.  

Why not just call for more morphine and look after all their needs, both for the dying and the living?   I’m sure we’d had found it for Iraq!  by the plane load!……It would be on hand as needed, I’m sure.

The quick death would have been preferable regardless of the method, in the absence of medication.  They have no future, except pain and the reality of the trauma of surviving a natural disaster.    For heaven’s sake how many really difficult decisions would have had to be made to justify who got sufficient drugs for their individual relief.  

“No extra or double doses” of morphine,   just sounds so rigid a policy, perhaps the policy makers need to experience the pain that would make them consider things differently. 

Compassion makes us relieve an animal’s pain by euthanasia (killing it) rather than let it suffer on, after being hit by a car.  

We only have to read the daily newspaper to see how people cope with hastening death when there are no alternative like a proper “peaceful pill”.  A plastic bag over the head is a grim attempt to get the message across.   Any sane person would prefer medication, but when its relief is so very restricted, other less acceptable methods will be adopted.

The agony of untreated pain has to be experienced to be understood.


Item Two

2005-09-26 From: Baptist Press News, Nashville, TN, US
Ethicists respond to claims of euthanasia in New Orleans
http://www.bpnews.net/bpnews.asp?ID=21728

Sep 26, 2005
By Staff
Baptist Press

NEW ORLEANS (BP)–An ethicist with the Christian Medical and Dental Associations says claims that doctors expedited the death of some patients rather than evacuating them as the waters rose in New Orleans should raise important questions about what individuals should be expected to do in such dire situations.

Discussion by Monday morning quarterbacks regarding decisions made and actions taken during the horror of Katrina will attempt to pass judgment, Robert Orr, M.D., said in the CMDA s Sept. 22 News & Views bulletin. I am unwilling to do that, especially based on second- or third-hand reports. I am also unwilling to predict what I would do if faced with a similarly impossible dilemma. Monday morning is a good time, however, to review the principles that provide guidance in such unimaginable circumstances.

The reports surfaced when The Daily Mail newspaper in London ran an article Sept. 11 claiming doctors killed critically ill patients they believed would not survive an evacuation.

Those who had no chance of making it were given a lot of morphine and lain down in a dark place to die, William Forest McQueen, an emergency official, told The Mail.

One New Orleans doctor told of how she ignored her oath of medical ethics and ended the lives of the patients she earlier had fought to save.

I didn t know if I was doing the right thing, she said. But I did not have time. I had to make snap decisions under the most appalling circumstances, and I did what I thought was right. I injected morphine into those patients who were dying and in agony. If the first dose was not enough, I gave a double dose. And at night I prayed to God to have mercy on my soul.

Orr, a trustee for the CMDA, examined the morality of such decisions and acknowledged the line is sometimes a thin one to draw.

It is morally impermissible to perform an action which intentionally causes death, he said. Compassion remains a moral obligation, but we must be wary of the politically charged term death with dignity. It is morally permissible to perform an action to relieve human suffering, even if such action unintentionally hastens death. Giving morphine and/or sedation to ameliorate or prevent agony in an imminently dying person, even to the point of rendering that person unconscious, is not only morally defensible, but most would say is part of the noble calling of medicine.

The triage conditions encountered during a time of war or natural disaster increase the demands on correct judgment, Orr said.

Which patients are most likely to die? How imminent is death? How fast is the water going to rise? Is it possible to transport this dying person to a safer place? Does providing care for this person place others in jeopardy? And many, many more questions, he said.

This may be one situation where the ethicist is justified in providing more questions than answers. Perhaps this is a good time to recall the words of Jesus: Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven (Luke 6:37), Orr concluded.

C. Ben Mitchell, a Southern Baptist bioethicist, told Baptist Press he largely agrees with Orr but had this to add:

EMTs and trauma doctors make triage decisions every day. The question comes down to: Who should we save when we cannot save them all? Mitchell, associate professor at Trinity Evangelical Divinity School in suburban Chicago and a consultant with the Southern Baptist Ethics & Religion Liberty Commission, said. These doctors had heart-wrenching obligations to both the patients they could not move to another location and the patients they were evacuating. One thing we should be clear about: We must not countenance the intentional killing of a hospital patient.


Item One

This article comes under the heading of “I’m all right Jack!” and would also take into account, vets as well as doctors.  At least the good doctor tried to assist his friend!   I vaguely remember reading that Dr Irwin has since been “struck off” for believing his patient’s wellbeing is more important than a law which cannot always be respected.

Doctors often help sick colleagues to die, GMC hearing is told By Nicole Martin, The News Telegraph
Filed: 27/09/2005

Doctors regularly agree to help fellow medics to die in the event of them falling terminally ill, one of Britain’s most outspoken pro-euthanasia campaigners told the General Medical Council yesterday.

Accusing the medical profession of double standards, Dr Michael Irwin, 74, said it was hypocritical for doctors to help dying colleagues to commit suicide, but not to “extend this privilege to their terminally ill patients or friends”.

The former chairman of the Voluntary Euthanasia Society, who admitted being “twinned” with a doctor in Glasgow in this way, exposed the practice as he stood accused of agreeing to help a friend with prostate cancer to commit suicide in 2003.

Dr Irwin, a retired doctor from Surrey, admitted travelling from his home to the Isle of Man with about 60 Temazepam sleeping pills he had prescribed for himself with the intention of helping Patrick Kneen to die.

In the event, his plan did not go ahead because Mr Kneen’s condition deteriorated so rapidly that he was unable to take the tablets and he died a few days later. However, Dr Irwin was cautioned by Surrey Police, and his case subsequently referred to the GMC, because the pills he had planned to supply to Mr Kneen were a Class C drug.

He appeared before the GMC yesterday accused of serious professional misconduct over his intentions to break the 1961 Suicide Act which outlaws assisted suicide.

He is also accused of exploiting the “prescribing privilege” of a doctor to stockpile the drug Temazepam over a period of time.

Dr Irwin, who represented himself, accepted that helping someone to die was “unlawful and a crime”, but he said there were times when a doctor’s “duty to a friend” was greater than his “duty to the state”.

He said that doctors commonly helped terminally ill patients to die, whether it was by terminal sedation – administering increasing doses of sedatives – or by providing lethal drugs.

He also said he knew several physicians who had “personal agreements” with other doctors to help each other to die if they became terminally ill.
“Physicians rarely have a very difficult or painful death,” he said.

“Doctors are often generous with providing appropriate drugs to dying colleagues and their close relatives, especially using the procedure of ‘terminal sedation’, which, widely performed in hospices, nursing and private homes today, is really slow euthanasia,” said Dr Irwin.

“And seriously ill physicians usually know how to obtain lethal medications for themselves, either in this country or abroad, allowing them to hasten their own deaths if they wish to do so.”

He added: “If physicians are willing to help each other at the end of life, surely they are guilty of applying double standards if they do not extend that privilege to their terminally ill patients or close friends?”

But Alison Foster, for the GMC, told the Fitness to Practise panel that Dr Irwin had displayed a “blatant disregard” for the law and that his actions “brought the good name of his profession in disrepute”.

She described his actions as unprofessional, inappropriate and irresponsible, and said they discredited the good name of his profession.

If found guilty, Dr Irwin could be struck off the medical register.

The hearing continues.

Article at
http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/main.jhtml?xml=/news/2005/09/27/ngmc27.xml&sSheet=/news/2 005/09/27/ixhome.html


Sep 28 2005

Support Ritchie’s IGA

Tag: Diarymary @ 5:45 am

Under Related Readings I have posted a thought provoking item from The Australian.

Which reminds me folks, please support Ritchie’s IGA (Independent Groceries Association) whenever possible.  They will donate a portion of their income to organisations such as the Voluntary Euthanasia Society of Victoria at your instigation.   Just fill out the form at the counter naming the VESV as your chosen “charity” to support. 

(I am not sure about the process in other States.)

Instead of supporting better funded and high profiled organisations such as the Salvation Army, and even the Cancer bodies, please consider the VESV which is always looking for additional funding.   The VESV is very frugal. 

Unlike some worthy causes, the VESV has limited support given it promotes choice and dignity in dying, also the article just posted under Related Readings, reminds us that death needs to be acknowledged as very part a part of the living process.


Sep 25 2005

Letters to Politicians August 22, 2005

Tag: Diarymary @ 5:45 am

Regarding the letter filed under Letters to Politicians August 22, 2005

It is now one month since I wrote to 130 Victorian State Politicians, which includes Liberal Coalition, Labor and Independents.   I had thought my comprehensive letter was balanced and considered (don’t we all think that about our own) yet, to date I have received 14 responses. Conspicuous by their absence are responses from the politicians elected directly to represent me in Parliament, although I am the first to admit I write to all on the basis, that once elected, politicians should represent all people within the State of Victoria.  Sometimes one may expect just a little bit extra, from those who live within my electoral boundaries.   How old am I?  how naive am I?

One of the most supportive letters was received by the State Member for Bentleigh, Mr Rob Hudson, who like all politicians does not commit to actually doing anything to help the cause so much as just say how he understands where I am coming from.   His response at least demonstrates a humanity which I feel is sadly lacking within the Labor Party overall, a Party I once thought was for the people.

Ah, that I could have the resources of the Catholic Church behind me to fight as much for the cause,  as they can afford to fight,  against Choice and Dignity in Dying.  I see where they have brought the brother of Terri out from America to address the RTL Annual Conference in New Zealand.    How can people on very limited income compete against the might of organised religion?   Some Catholics have a need to impose their views on others regardless of the cost in human suffering.   I have to remind myself that “God” has no part of the actions that is taken in “His Name”.  Poor God!


The Department of Premier and Cabinet responded September 6th, advising that the issues I’ve raised fall within the portfolio responsibility of the Attorney General, the Hon Rob Hulls, MP, so my letter has been referred to the Department of Justice for consideration.   I await that “consideration” with interest.   

The Minister for Consumer Affairs responded September 13th, with the same understanding of responsibility as the Premier’s Department, that is the Attorney General.

Again, on the other hand, The Minister for Energy Industries & Resources (Sept 5th) and the Office of the Treasurer of Victoria both advise that my letter has been referred to the Minister for Health, The Hon Bronwyn Pike MP for “consideration”.

A couple of Politicians upset me slightly by giving me the name and address of my sitting Member, and quoting me the Medical Treatment Act 1988 as if it would appear I have no understanding of the simple basics of the task I am undertaking, in a formal lobbying initiative for “Choice”.   They haven’t remembered my previous letters – or perhaps the office administrator is the only person to read my letters.  One letter had a great flourish of a signature (6 cm) which looked a little like the Pitman’s Shorthand I learnt as a girl.  I wondered if he had practiced that signature or whether it came naturally to a flamboyant personality!

I wondered at the “standard of representation” we have at Parliament when a person wastes public money replying “thank you for advising me of your concerns”.  I am asking for a considered response to a set of questions and scenarios.  I have taken time out to do my homework and really address deep concerns as expressed by many in the community.  I have tried to offer an intelligent point of view, which I would really have appreciated a proper response to the concerns raised in my letter.

The Hon Richard Dalla-Riva, MLC is the State Liberal Spokesperson for Corrections Scrutiny of Government, states he has “taken onboard your comments and thank you again for taking the time to write to me”.

The Hon Ron Bowden, JP, Opposition Spokesman for Ports and Financial Services Industry tells me “The content has been noted and I appreciate you writing to express your views in respect to this matter”.

The Hon Phillip Honeywood, Member for Warrandyte, Deputy Leader of the Opposition, Shadow Minister for Environment acknowledges my activism in this field, welcomes my feedback and refers me to the Attorney General who has the ultimate responsibility to initiate any moves in this direction.   I felt this response was a good one.  It demonstrated to me that Mr Honeywood had actually thought through the issues I’d raised.

The bottom line is that I have to be grateful that 14 of 130 Politicians had the courtesy to write to me at all.   It is indicative that I must feel grateful for any crumbs at all that our Victorian Government Representatives, feed me.


I so wish that the energy and money spent on preventing suicide would somehow focus on what it is that makes people want to commit suicide.   It is the absolute sense that “no one is listening” and I know exactly how that feels.  Do the people who work so hard to “save” a suicide ever stop to think “for what reason am I preventing this person from committing suicide?”   What does society do with the people they “save” and throw back into the ongoing sense of despair that can be some people’s lot in life?

What is wrong with developing “choices”?   Why is it such a hard topic for politicians to face?  What is complex about giving options to people who are terminally ill. excessively frail or chronically suffering?  We are compassionate to our dogs, why not our people?

One very positive outcome from my letter, has been the acknowledgment, that I don’t necessarily see the issues I’ve raised recently as being only health related,  so much as a legal abuse of our rights.   When there are Doctors who can defy the law because of their own religious views,  we need to ask in our multicultural society, who is running the Government?.

Perhaps the conservative Christians have the ear of the government today, but tomorrow it could be Orthodox Jewish, Islam, Hindus, Radical Christians, Buddhists ….

Our Victorian Politicians need to take a long term view of the vision we have for addressing an ageing population who will invariably impose horrendous medical expenses, on the remaining society.  There will be some of us who are prepared to die sooner rather than later, but we need Government support to assist us to die easier.  We don’t seek to have a doctor be responsible for this necessarily, just provide the access to the peaceful pill and we’ll look after ourselves.  I am sure volunteers could be found among “Carers” to assist those unable to physically make a move to take the necessary medication.   There are many compassionate people around, they are just terrified of their loss of freedom under the existing legislation, which condemns many to a slow painful death as a result.  

We need to protect our freedoms secured by the knowledge that Australia operates with a Secular Government System in place.   Can we please address “Choice” with only the physical and mental well being of the individual without the trappings of any religion, which should be confined to their place of worship and within their family units.


Sep 18 2005

Item taken from Exit Newsletter

Tag: Diarymary @ 2:02 pm

Kep Enderby, NSW VES President to be a guest on SBS “Insight” Tuesday evening

(Mary’s note: Kep Enderby is a wonderfully articulate advocate for Voluntary Euthanasia.)

INSIGHT: WHEN I GET OLDER

7.30pm Tuesday 20th September on SBS.
Someone once said there are only two things certain in this life: death and taxes.
But that great philosopher probably forgot to mention the process of getting older which actually leads us to death.
Tonight’s Insight forum discusses the issues of getting older, both from a personal and societal point of view.
Baby boomers are rapidly heading to old age, but can Australia deal with that?

Topics include euthanasia, aged care, dementia, financial costings and attitudes to the elderly. The idea of ending up in a
nursing home is very confronting and host Jenny Brockie handles the twists and turns on the debate with her usual aplomb.
This is definitely not cheerful viewing, but at least you can be comforted in the fact that getting older is happening to everyone
else around you as well.

WHEN I GET OLDER…
If Elvis Presley or James Dean hadn’t died so young, today they’d both be candidates for nursing homes. So is dying young
the only way to avoid your children trundling you off to a retirement home? Or is it a matter of building aged care that even the
King would be happy to spend his final years in?

Hot on the heels of the two and a half million seniors facing retirement in Australia today, are the Baby Boomers whose
numbers and tastes are about to come head to head with the one thing they thought they’d never face – old age.

INSIGHT asks WHEN I GET OLDER…, 7.30pm Tuesday 20 September on SBS.

* Please note, INSIGHT is repeated on Fridays at 1pm.

INSIGHT GUESTS

SUE PIETERS-HAWKE
Sue is the daughter of Bob and Hazel Hawke. After Hazel developed
Alzheimer’s, Sue became the primary carer and is active in trying to
promote awareness and understanding of Alzheimer’s.

KEP ENDERBY
Kep Enderby was the Attorney-General in Gough Whitlam’s Government, and is the President of the NSW Voluntary
Euthanasia Society.

DR MIKE RUNGIE
Dr. Mike Rungie is the CEO of Aged Care & Housing Group, a private not-for-profit organisation that provides more than 20,000
older people with specialist care facilities in South Australia. Dr Rungie hopes one day the public will not think of nursing
homes or hostels as the only options for aged care.

DR. SUE KURRLE
Dr Sue Kurrle is a geriatrician and Director of the Rehabilitation and Aged Care Service at Hornsby Ku-ring-gai Hospital in
Sydney. She runs a Memory Clinic at the Hospital and is involved in the assessment and management of people with
dementia.


Sep 16 2005

I am still learning a major lesson in life

Tag: Diarymary @ 7:03 am

I wanted to share with you that I am still learning a major lesson in life, that is one,  of not jumping to conclusions.  What seemed so obvious to me in an instant, proved, in reality, not correct

Among my interests in life I also involve myself slightly in community affairs and in particular, Council Matters, which for me is the City of Glen Eira. 

There happens to be a Liberal Member of Parliament, Ms Helen Shardey, ensconced in this neck of the woods.  Recently the bulk letter mail out August 22,  resulted in her letter being returned to me with the famous Post Office Hand ticked against “delivery refused”.  I immediate concluded that she’d recognised my name (return address) from recent Council related matters,  and had refused to accept my correspondence.   I initially baulked against such treatment. 

Because she has never acknowledged any correspondence from me, be it Choice & Dignity in Dying or Council Related Issues I thought it a little strange that she would refuse delivery outright on this occasion.

Sure enough, I drove down to her last known address in Glen Huntly Road to a very helpful Real Estate Agents Office, and established for myself that her office had since moved to Unit 1, 193 Balaclava Road.   Of course, I went to the wrong end of Balaclava Road, amid heavy traffic, and had to slip up a driveway pretending a right hand turn.

 I felt quite cheerful about being proved wrong.

And I apologised mentally for the slur I had placed on that lady’s reputation in her absence, as I dropped the re addressed envelope to the correct address.  A much more “up market address”, modern and eminently more suitably situated for our local Liberal Member.

 Although a response would be appreciated, it is not expected, given the nature of our relationship.  That is a fundamental problem with one way communication.  Assumptions!

I was wrong in assuming she even recognised my name,  and had made an executive decision to refuse my overtures for Legislative change to her,  as a Representative of Victorians in Parliament.   Ms Shardey may never answer any of my concerns but at the very least she knows I participate in my community both at Local and State levels. 

One of her constituents, a very elderly lady did visit her office regarding canvassing Ms Shardey’s views on VE,  and was left feeling completely patronized, and dissatisfied that her concerns had been treated with any genuine respect whatsoever.   My attitude is that,  as people’s needs in life change,  so too do many entrenched views about a whole range of issues, be it family, job, position in society, and most importantly, health issues tend to top the chart.    Good Health is priceless.


I thought viewing Mark Latham, Australia’s Retired Labor Opposition Leader,  last night on the Andrew Denton Show, Channel 2, that he’d managed to get his priorities right in life.   Regardless of who you are, I feel one would respect his points of view, regarding what takes precedence in importance when “the chips are down”.   I love that he is so forthright about his love for family.  Many would be incapable of such an articulate display of feelings and at aged 44, he has learnt reasonably early in life the values that go to making life worth living.

I would surmise that Mr Latham is so very angry with people he perceived previously as friends because of the way he was treated by both political friends and enemies also the media.  He was a very sick man and was “kicked” when he was down.  His illness was apparently an ongoing scenario, arising out of the chemotherapy treatment for testicle cancer,  suffered some years previously.    Now the bull is “recovered” and is roaring back.  

Because politics on both sides has dirty linen in the closet doesn’t mean it shouldn’t be publicly aired regardless of who is hanging out the washing.   Compassion is definitely off the political menu.

Pauline Hanson, whether you love or hate her was crucified by all and sundry in much the same manner, with unsubstantiated slurs on her sex life and integrity.   Recently a Liberal NSW opposition leader was brought to the brink of suicide, the media states, by people within his own Liberal Party.   Pauline was such a threat that both major parties joined forces to bring her down, and they succeeded.

And we talk of suicide and “protecting” the vulnerable with draconian legislation.   Perhaps we should start with the Political Platform as to reasons why people. other than serious medical conditions, would consider killing themselves.   Talk about leading by example to the rest of us in society!  

Mind you, Mr Latham is just telling his memoirs.  His observations,  of what happened in his experience.  Can one be sued for expressing a feeling in their diaries?  

I wonder whether Mr Latham will again become a supporter of Voluntary Euthanasia, now the shackles of Opposition Leader no longer apply.    With Mr Beazley, Australian’s current Federal Opposition Leader, (I use the word Opposition advisedly!) there was never a question of “Choice”  because he stood with Mr Andrews to over ride the NT Legislation   And again with the Suicide Legislation, condemning VE Advocates to a restricted ability to talk for and about suicide methods….. We can never rely on Mr Beazley for support, because he holds so much in common with the Prime Minister, Mr Howard.  

 The Christian Conservatives are alive and well throughout all levels of our governments, State, Federal, Liberals, Labor, Independents.   A Church Minister recently sidled up beside me at a public meeting to express his support for what I am attempting.   Very quietly spoken, nonetheless, his message was gratefully acknowledged.  His dismay at the current display of extreme intolerance for other’s viewpoints was music to my ears…..  It demonstrates that the ordinary man is still thinking for himself. 


But typically for a Lone Campaigner, I am above party politics in some situations,  to the extent that I volunteered to door knock for a Liberal Councillor in the last Council Elections,  I was so incensed,  at the devious methods being undertaken by some candidates,  to be elected.  


Sep 13 2005

Suicide and Rights talk at Cross Purposes

Tag: Diarymary @ 6:03 am

The item below was sent by a contributor who felt a bit down this morning but has obviously regained her sense of humor and sent me something to lighten our day, as we all do if given half a chance. I wanted to use this moment of levity prior to responding to an article in the Brisbane Courier Mail, written by Ruth Limkin on September 9, 2005. Suicide and Rights talk at Cross Purposes. She questions if there is any difference between suicide and euthanasia? Preempting myself a little, I would just say for now, that to many, suicide is euthanasia. That is, suicide may be the “good death” depending on where you’re at in your life. What is tolerable to one person, may be totally intolerable to another.


But enough of the serious stuff, let’s share a smile together!


When I was in my younger days, I weighed a few pounds less,
I needn’t hold my tummy in to wear a belted dress.

But now that I am older, I’ve set my body free;
There’s comfort of elastic Where once my waist would be.

Inventor of those high-heeled shoes My feet have not forgiven;
I have to wear a nine now, But used to wear a seven.

And how about those pantyhose– They’re sized by weight, you see,
So how come when I put them on, The crotch is at my knee?

I need to wear these glasses As the print’s been getting smaller;

And it wasn’t very long ago, I know that I was taller.

Though my hair has turned to gray, and my skin no longer fits,

On the inside, I’m the same old me, though the outside’s changed a bit.

But, on a positive note…

I’ve learned that no matter what happens, or how bad it seems today,

life does go on, and it will be better tomorrow.

I’ve learned that you can tell a lot about a person by the way he/she handles these three things:

a rainy day, lost luggage, and tangled Christmas tree lights.

I’ve learned that regardless of your relationship with your parents, you’ll miss them when they’re gone from your life.

I’ve learned that making a “living” is not the same thing as making a “life.”

I’ve learned that life sometimes gives you a second chance.

I’ve learned that you shouldn’t go through life with a catcher’s mitt on both hands.

You need to be able to throw something back.

I’ve learned that whenever I decide something with an open heart,

I usually make the right decision.

I’ve learned that even when I have pains,

I don’t have to be one.

I’ve learned that every day you should reach out and touch someone.

People love a warm hug, or just a friendly pat on the back.

I’ve learned that I still have a lot to learn.

I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did,

but people will never forget how you made them feel.


Sep 10 2005

Magic stuff

Tag: Diarymary @ 3:30 am

A lovely time of the day, when all is at peace with the world. The birds always start their communal chatter very early (much to my neighbor’s annoyance) but it is even too early for them.

Who else noticed the moon the other night, which looked just like the Flag of Pakistan. A curve shaped moon like a scythe (a metal instrument my dad used for cutting grass before the invention of law mowers)? and beside the moon, one very bright star!. Normally I would see the moon in the East of the house but it had moved right over to the West……

Magic stuff (ah yes, I sometimes believe in magic!) As does “hippiejane” who operates her own Harry Potter Website. http://www.everlastingmagic.com

I was brought up as a child to look for the “man on the moon” and with child like joy sometimes still remember the “magic” of believing what my parents told me. When very little, I lived in South Gippsland where shooting stars, in a very star laden heaven, were the norm!. With the reality of adulthood, I can still indulge in the simple joys of life.


“Catherine” continues her speedy recovery, telling me the lung removal operation she underwent, is relatively very uncommon.  This makes it even better that it has been so successful for her.  With three cancers removed in 5 years, I have both my fingers and toes crossed for her.   She holds no religious beliefs but has the utmost faith in the medical profession.   I was curious to know whether she would be tempted to call on the “Almighty” in her time of angst, but no, it was always to do with the Power of Positive Thinking with just a small hint of doubt.   A good clean life means she doesn’t need additional oxygen to breathe.


The week marks the first anniversary of this small, independent Website, yourchoiceindying.com.   Although I started it directly as a way of “venting spleen” against the wall of indifference I feel emanating from Governments, I have learnt a lot about tolerance of other’s viewpoints.   The State Labor Government may stonewall me, but for some ordinary people I feel a great sense of empathy. 

Two highlights of my year were attending the Public Senate Hearing (Suicide Related Materials) in Canberra and The Right to Life Conference.   Both taught me that my opposition is a formable opponent and truth is very often a causality in the interpretation of people’s perceptions.  Senator Ellison public interview responses bore no resemblance to what I understood took place in the Senate Hearing.  I am naive in the world of politics.  With a book keeper mentality I always subconsciously look for “balance”.  It is probably what made me good at looking for fraudulent transactions.  

And hearing a doctor articulating that he would put “his conscience” for what his own religious values stood for, over that of a patient’s rights, floored me. (Refer RTL Conference details under Lobbying Menu)   The fact I could be shocked by the doctor’s admission, shows that I am forever learning, that for some, the end justifies the means!…And for himself, not for the good of others.    

Often quoted is the saying “Do no Harm”, but for a Doctor,  sustaining life for some,  at any cost, is directly harmful to that individual.   Particularly when a vegetative state is the “window of opportunity” for being revived!  And Doctors, having a very good scientific understanding of the bodily functions know when they make their decisions what the most likely outcome will be.  By all means then “Do No Harm” please.

I have felt a lot less stressed given the opportunity to openly voice my fears, anxiety, hope and joys with the rest of humanity, given that my family “don’t want to know”.   They genuinely believe I will live forever!   That this stubborn, difficult, tenacious woman is indestructible. They can’t imagine me dying, this woman who used to once lug blue stone by the hundreds around the garden, shift furniture, spend long days working a full time job, defying the odds of ovarian cancer. 

I have had only one really offensive response to my web site, and his emails have been kept for the record.  I always try  to attack the situation, not the individual.   And I really appreciate those who write saying they don’t necessarily agree with my VE stance, but enjoy the substance of the website and the fact that I can discuss our differences without malice.

I like that readers of my web site, feel that they can contribute from both sides of the campaign, and of course, without my web mistress, hippiejane, none of this would be possible. 

May I take this opportunity to refer you to a Link, www.justice.qld.gov.au/guardian/forms/health.pdf,  added recently to my listings, which will provide you with an excellent example of an Advance Directive, provided by the Queensland Government but easily adaptable to any Australian State’s requirements.   I have taken a hard copy (24 pages) which is very clearly set out, with no ambiguities.   I thank the contributor who drew my attention to the Site.

It has been a very good year.     Thank you for sharing it with me.


Sep 08 2005

Isn’t modern medicine great?

Tag: Diarymary @ 5:20 pm

My friend “Catherine” is sitting up in bed all chirpy and cheerful with not a care in the world.   The Doctors believe they have got all the cancerous growth in the lung now removed….. Great news, and I feel so very relieved for her.   She looks great and very happy….Isn’t modern medicine great?


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